Written by Becci Clubb

It’s official, you’re engaged! Now, we know that the question is traditionally popped while on bent knee, with an open ring box displaying something sparkly – but we’re not followers of tradition! Nowadays, modern proposals often come with a placeholder ring or without a ring at all. This new way of thinking allows brides (and grooms!) to look through engagement ring inspiration for themselves and have a say in the type of jewellery they want to wear.

Choosing the perfect engagement ring is one of the most exciting and personal decisions you can make. While the traditional bling is beautiful, couples today are choosing unusual engagement rings that break away from convention.  

Here are eight compelling reasons to ditch traditional and choose a unique and unusual engagement ring…

1. An Unusual Engagement Ring Can Reflect Your Personality 

If you’ve been trawling through engagement ring inspiration, you’ll already know by now that engagement rings come in all shapes and sizes. Whether you choose a coloured diamond, a twisted band adorned with gemstones or a pearl-encrusted ring, your engagement ring should be a reflection of your personality and your style. Rather than following the latest trends, choose an engagement ring that will transcend time – you’ll be wearing it forever, after all!

You’ll be spoiled for choice, so narrow down your favourites by considering your lifestyle, your fashion taste and what coloured metals suit your skin tone best. If you lead an active lifestyle, you might opt for a ring with a more durable setting or stones that don’t protrude too much. If you always wear vibrant hues, consider a ring with a coloured diamond. The key is to choose something that feels right and gives you the freedom to express your unique style and personality. An unconventional or unusual engagement ring allows you to express your individuality.

2. You Get More for Your Money

Unusual engagement rings often offer better value for money compared to traditional diamond solitaires. Precious stones like rubies and moissanite, as well as semi-precious stones like amethyst and topaz, tend to be more affordable, but still provide the stunning beauty and uniqueness desired. 

By opting for alternative gems, you can get a larger stone or a more intricate design that falls within your budget. Engagement rings with unconventional gemstones maximise the visual impact of your ring without the hefty price tag.

3. Select Ethically Sourced Gems

As people become more clued up on ethical practices, the source of their jewellery is a crucial consideration. Choosing an unusual engagement ring often includes exploring ethically sourced options, such as lab-grown diamonds, freshwater pearls, and ethically mined gems.

Lab-grown diamonds are identical to mined diamonds in appearance, but they come without the environmental and ethical concerns associated with ‘conflict diamonds’ mined in war-torn areas. Similarly, natural pearls and other ethically sourced gems ensure that your ring’s beauty doesn’t come at the expense of the planet or the welfare of workers.

4. Incorporate Bright Gemstone Colours

Who says engagement rings have to be limited to clear diamonds? Incorporating bright colours into your engagement ring can make it truly stand out.

Coloured gemstones like bright blue sapphires, deep green emeralds and shimmering red rubies can add a flash of colour and personality to your ring. These stones can be combined with traditional diamonds or used alone to create a striking, memorable ring that reflects your unique love story.

5. Jewellery Glittering With Romance

If you are planning to propose with a ring, an unusual engagement ring is often more romantic because it’s more considered and personal. By choosing a ring that steps away from tradition you’re showing that you’ve put thought and care into selecting something that truly represents your partner and your relationship. The thought behind the decision adds to the romance. 

Whether it’s a vintage-inspired design, a ring featuring a stone with personal significance or a modern, minimalist piece, the time and effort invested in choosing or creating an unconventional ring make it a symbol of your unique love.

6. Shop Unique Engagement Rings Sustainably 

Sustainability is becoming increasingly important to many couples across all elements of wedding planning. Choosing a ring made from locally sourced materials can significantly reduce the environmental impact of your jewellery. Plus it can give you a deeper connection to your ring’s origins. By supporting local artisans and jewellers, you’re not only ensuring that your ring is unique but also promoting eco-friendly practices.

7 . An Engagement Ring Made With Love

What could be more romantic than designing or making your own engagement ring with your partner? Many jewellers offer custom design services, allowing you and your partner to collaborate on a piece you’ll treasure. 

Working with a jeweller to design your ring ensures that every detail reflects your love story. You can choose the materials, the setting and the finish of the design, resulting in a ring that is not only beautiful but also deeply meaningful. This bonding experience adds another layer of romance to your engagement ring.

8. Unite In A Joint Decision

When selecting your engagement ring together, it can be the first joint decision you make around your marriage. It can mark the beginning of your journey into marriage. From starting with engagement ring inspiration to making the final choice, you will have the opportunity to communicate, compromise, understand each other’s tastes and make a meaningful choice together. 

When you ultimately agree on a ring, you will have laid the foundation for a partnership built on mutual respect and collaboration. Embracing this first significant decision together can make the engagement period even more special.

Check out the jewellers in The Un-Wedding’s Book Of Love directory to find the perfect ring for you!